Wednesday, September 28, 2022

Journal 9/28: Arrival in France

9/25: Plane from Newark to Istanbul
After spending the day with my pets and family, my parents drove me to the Newark Airport, which is about an hour away from my home in New Jersey. Even though my flight didn't start boarding until 23:00, I arrived at 18:30 PM because I live by the philosophy that if you're not early, you're late. My parents dropped me off at Terminal B, where Turkish Airlines departs from. I walked up and down the whole level and started getting nervous when I didn't see anything saying "Turkish Airlines." I asked an employee for directions and she sent me to Zone D, but that made me even more confused because even there I didn't see anything about Turkish Airlines. A different employee saw me looking lost and told me that I was in the right place, but check-in didn't start until 7:30. Fortunately they have a waiting area across from the check-in counters. I had to pee reeeeally badly, but I was not going to attempt to maneuver a restroom with all my luggage! I connected to the airport's free WiFi and played Twisted Wonderland and did some Duolingo on my phone while I waited.

The check-in process went smoothly. I was a little nervous that they would tell me I couldn't bring my laptop bag since the website said you can only have one carry-on and a personal item no larger than a camera in the cabin, and the man checking me in did ask if I was bringing anything besides my backpack on the plane, but when I said I also had my laptop and asked if that was okay he just said he would only put a tag on the backpack. I used the bathroom, grabbed some Starbucks, then used the bathroom again. I probably should have skipped the Starbucks, though, because in the short time it took me to finish my drink, the line for security QUADRUPLED from when I first saw it! There was also an "empty liquids" station halfway through the line, so I could have nursed my Starbucks while standing in line.

Even though boarding was supposed to begin at 23:00, at 23:10 the board said the flight was now leaving at 12:30 instead of 23:50. They didn't make an announcement or anything, so I'm glad I checked! At 23:23 they finally made an announcement saying there's a delay due to "extreme weather" and they will update us, but didn't say what time it was delayed to. Then, 5 minutes later, they announced that the flight would be leaving at 12:55, so an hour and 5 minutes later than originally scheduled. But after 5 more minutes, the board said 1:10. To be honest, I forgot to make a note of what time the plane actually departed, but I do know that fortunately, the board was incorrect and it was earlier than 1:10.

 9/26: Plane from Istanbul to Paris, then Overnight in hotelF1

When I booked my plane ticket online, it said that the first flight would be 9 hours and 55 minutes, but the flight tracker on the plane's TVs said it would actually only be 8 hours and 30 minutes. I don't remember ever actually falling asleep on the plane, but every time I took off my sleeping mask at least three hours had passed, so I guess I did sleep for most of the flight. The woman next to me even told me that they served dinner but I slept through the whole thing. I was awake for when they served breakfast, though (scrambled eggs with mushrooms, a tomato, and diced potatoes, a fruit cup, a roll with butter and strawberry jam, and a couple slices of cheese), and it was absolutely delicious. The internet wasn't wrong about Turkish Airlines having some of the best food in the industry! During the last hour of the flight, I watched a short documentary called "Puppies VS The World" on the plane's entertainment system, which was adorable and made me start missing my pets already.

I spent most of my layover in Istanbul navigating the airport. It was easy enough to find my flight number on the board and figure out where to go, since all the gates were labeled clearly; the problem was that the airport is huge, and also not air-conditioned, so I was physically exhausted and uncomfortably sweaty by the time I reached my gate. I was a little worried about missing the connecting flight because of the delays on the first flight, but I checked in right on time and boarded with everyone else. 

Instead of sleeping on this flight, I watched the film Morbius on the plane's entertainment system. (The movie was just as bad as people said it was, but obviously that's not the airline's fault.) There was only about 1 hour and 20 minutes left until landing by the time the movie ended, plus I was too tired to start anything new, so I just listened to music for the remainder of the flight. At some point they served dinner, which was a warm roll with butter, chicken and rice with some sort of yogurt-based sauce, and chocolate mousse for dessert. Once again, totally delicious!

It was about 22:30 (CEST) by the time I got off the plane at Charles de Gaulle AĆ©roport. The airport was completely empty except for the people from my plane, which was kind of weird. There wasn't a restroom on the connecting flight (or at least I didn't see one, and I didn't feel like searching for it), so I had to pee so badly that I wasn't able to appreciate the artistry airport, since all I could think was "BATHROOM BATHROOM BATHROOM." I'll try to pay better attention when I return home in December.

Since nobody was in the airport except for the people from my plane, the line at customs was super short, and I only waited for maybe two minutes before getting my passport stamped. Then, at the baggage claim, I found both of my suitcases right away, which was a huge relief. I ordered a taxi from the taxi.eu app, but two problems quickly arose: one, I got a notification that the taxi had arrived but I didn't see it anywhere (even though I had described my specific location in a message to the driver), and two, the "pay by card" option was unavailable for some reason, and I hadn't purchased any euros yet. (In retrospect, I should have ordered some from my bank before leaving for France, but my bank required a minimum of 100 euros and at the time I didn't think I would need that many, since a returning assistant in the WhatsApp group had said that they only ended up using maybe 50 euros their entire time in TAPIF). I was worried that an Uber would be much more expensive and complicated, but in fact, it was only 3 euros more than the taxi, and super easy. The driver found me right away and was very friendly. I mentioned to him that French wasn't my first language, and he asked if I was German, which I thought was funny because my German professor in college told me I spoke German with a French accent. Apparently I speak French with a German accent, too! He also taught me the French idiom "Quoi on veut, on peut," and that while there is the option to tip your drivers in France, it's taboo to talk about tips (which I thought might be the case, since tip culture in other countries is very different than America, but I wasn't positive). He drove me to the hotel I had booked a few months in advance: hotelF1 Roissy. 


The hotel was.... not great. I knew it was the cheapest option around and that the reviews were pretty bad, but I had somehow missed that there were no toiletries or towels provided, and that the showers and bathrooms were outside the rooms. If I had known that, I would have just booked a hostel! Then, to make things worse, a cleaning lady woke me up at 9:30 the next morning (which isn't super early, I know, but I was tired enough that I could have slept until noon if checkout wasn't at 14:00), and as I stumbled out of bed in my nightgown, she opened the door anyway and I flashed her!!! It was mortifying, but I also have no idea why she would come in a room that wasn't checked out yet. It was better than sleeping out on the streets for the night, but I would definitely not recommend hotelF1. 

9/27: Train from Paris to Saint-Quentin
I had booked a train ticket from Paris to Saint-Quentin for 14:34, and the train station was about an hour from the hotel, so I booked a second Uber for 11:00. (I've never used Uber in my life, so it's kind of funny that I used it twice in 24 hours.) This driver wasn't as friendly as my previous one--in fact, he didn't speak to me the entire time--but I was utterly exhausted, so this was totally fine by me. We arrived at Gare du Nord around 14:00. The station is big, but not as crowded or dirty as New York Penn Station, so I wasn't intimidated. I found my platform pretty quickly, bought a water bottle from a vending machine, and waited for the train. About 10 minutes before departure time, I drifted closer to the train, and realized that the train that was docked there was the one I would be taking. A man approached me and asked me something, but I panicked and said I didn't speak much French; as it turns out, however, he was the train operator, and he was letting me know that I was allowed to get on the train now. I was embarrassed that I had judged him as a potential threat so quickly, but hey, you can't go wrong with practicing stranger danger. I thought you could only start boarding two minutes before departure, so I'm glad that guy found me. 


The train ride was nice and relaxing: I caught up on sleep and listened to music. The arrival was delayed by 5 minutes, but that didn't really make any difference. It was just me and one man left on the train by the time it got to Saint-Quentin, and he offered to carry my suitcases for me. I know I just said stranger danger is good, but my bags did weigh 50 pounds each, so I took him up on that. I was especially grateful for his help when the only exit was up a flight of stairs. The teacher from my school that arranged to pick me up from the station found me right away, and drove me right to the school. I'm fortunate enough to have been placed in a school that provides free housing for their assistants, so she showed me to the dorms and introduced me to the Chinese assistant who had moved in before me. The Spanish assistant is moving in tomorrow, the Italian assistant withdrew from the program, and apparently nobody has heard back from the German assistant, so it looks like it's just going to be the three of us. Previous assistants from the past 10 or so years have left behind things for us to use, so the kitchens (there are two of them!), bathrooms (there are two of those, too), and bedrooms have basically everything we need. The only really important thing that was missing is bath towels, but my dormmate and I both brought our own (I technically brought a beach towel, not a bath towel, but it works), so we managed. 

I'm still exhausted and a tad bit overwhelmed, but my dorm is much nicer than I expected (especially considering it's free), and I'm just glad I made it here safely and with all my luggage!

Saturday, September 24, 2022

Journal 9/24: First Hiccup

 In the final days leading up to my departure for France, I've been feeling a reasonable amount of about-to-leave-on-a-life-changing-journey stress, but in general, things were going pretty smoothly. But then yesterday, two days before my flight, disaster struck.

So, a bit of backstory: I have AT&T as my phone carrier here in the US. Back in August, I saw I was eligible for a free upgrade if I traded in my current phone, so I took advantage of that and upgraded from a Galaxy S10e to a Galaxy S22. I explained to the salesperson that I would be moving to France soon and would need to unlock my phone from the carrier so I could add a French sim card, and they told me that all I would need to do is call 611 and they would unlock it for me. I naively assumed that this would be a simple process; after all, it was just one quick phone call, right? Well, as it turns out, this salesperson left out some significant details. Details that might cost me over $800.

I was a little skeptical when the salesperson told me that my new phone didn't have a physical sim card slot, but I learned that eSims existed so I figured I would be fine. I was right about that much, at least: I purchased a one-week international eSim from Airalo for $4.25, so that I would have coverage for my first week in France while I got settled in and got a French eSim (I was planning on using Free Mobile, since there's a boutique right down the street from my school and a lot of previous assistants strongly recommended it). The Airalo eSim would activate as soon as I entered Europe, but being a tad bit paranoid, I decided to wait until right before I left to install it on the off chance that it would activate here in the US. My flight is scheduled to depart at 11:50 PM on Sunday, so I figured Friday would be a cautious but reasonable time to install it. I had already checked to make sure my new phone was eSim compatible and reviewed how to add an eSim to my specific model, so I assumed it would be quick and easy, just a matter of scanning a QR code and pressing a couple of buttons.

Boy, was I wrong.

I went to Settings, then Connections, then SIM card manager. I clicked "Add mobile plan (Add an eSim mobile plan)" and scanned the QR code provided to me by Airalo. I got a message telling me my phone was still locked to my carrier. I didn't panic yet: I would just call 611 and ask them to unlock it. Even better, I found there was an option to submit an unlock request online! I noticed something that said you could only unlock your phone if it was fully paid off, but I had paid off my previous phone and the new one was a free upgrade, so that shouldn't be a problem, right? Wrong. Very, very wrong. Apparently, I still owed $825. And I would have to pay all of that at once if I wanted to unlock my phone. And even if I paid that huge sum right then and there, I would have to wait another 48 hours to submit a second unlock request, and then another 24 hours after that before I could add an eSims, by which point I would already be in France.

Now I started to panic.

I immediately shared my predicament with the WhatsApp TAPIF assistants group chat. One person told me that they encountered the same problem last year, but they talked to customer service and asked for an exception, and they unlocked their phone the next day without them needing to pay a dime. Awesome! Feeling reassured, I called AT&T customer service and explained the situation. The panic settled right back in when they told me that they only make exceptions for military deployments. I updated the WhatsApp chat, and the person who'd suggested calling customer service said they were initially also told that they only make military exceptions, but they just kept calling and chatting online until they found an agent that was willing to unlock it for them. The thing is, this person has Verizon. Another person then chimed in and said that they also had the same problem in the past, but they ended up paying off their phone for $600. A third person said they also have AT&T and that they would not budge on the subject. Great! 

I was ready to throw in the towel, pay $825, and pinch pennies (euros?) for the next seven months, but my mom was more persistent. While we ran around doing last-minute errands and packing, my mom spoke with no less than three AT&T agents, going full Karen on them all (my mom is a wonderful, compassionate lady, but she can make any manager want to quit their job). Just like WhatsApp Person #3 warned, however, none of them budged whatsoever. 

Finally, after several hours of frustration, my mom got ahold of someone in the Customer Loyalty Department. This lady couldn't help unlock the phone either—AT&T is seriously stubborn on that end—but she did at least give us some information that talked me off the ledge. She told us point blank to never go into an AT&T store, because all they care about is making a commission, so they will lie and manipulate you at any turn. In fact, she said, employees in all AT&T departments except Customer Loyalty are trained to care about sales first, and customers second (if at all). She admitted that the salesperson who sold me my phone 100% ripped me off by telling me the upgrade was free and that all I would have to do to unlock my phone is call 611. In the salesperson's defense, they probably genuinely didn't know that I would have to pay off my phone in full to unlock it, but they totally knew what they were doing when they lied about the upgrade being free. Awesome. The Customer Loyalty woman walked us through AT&T's international plan, and explained it much more clearly than the website does. It certainly isn't cheap, but 7 months of the international plan would still end up costing less than the $825 I would need to pay upfront to unlock my phone and use eSims.

In the end, after a long day of feeling doomed (I'm honestly impressed that I didn't cry), I came to the conclusion that the cheapest, and therefore probably the best, option would be to just buy a whole new phone while I'm in France and set it up with a French carrier (the WhatsApp group said I can get a new Android or Motorola in France for about $200), and just use my current phone with the AT&T international plan for my first few days abroad. It would admittedly be much easier and more convenient to use my current phone with the international plan for the entire duration of TAPIF, but according to my math (and I confess I am by no means a mathematician), that would end up costing me about $300 more than getting a second phone in France. Is convenience really worth $300? I'm inclined to say no, of course not... but that's going to depend on how complicated setting up a phone in France will be.

I am absolutely not a go-with-the-flow kind of person—on the contrary, I like to plan things as many months in advance as possible—but for the moment, I'm just going to have to use AT&T's international plan for the first few days of TAPIF, and figure out my next steps from there.

RIP to the $4.25 Airalo eSim that I won't be able to use.

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